Enjoy the little things

Positieve psychologie, dat is iets waar ik me op wil richten ja. Altijd positief bloggen. Ik moet wel zeggen dat bloggen mij enorm geholpen heeft met de knop om te zetten. Je weet wel, die knop in je hoofd die je negatief laat denken, die je pessimistisch laat zijn. Die knop moet je zien om te draaien op een of andere manier en opeens is de wereld een stukje mooier. Ik weet niet hoe het precies zit, hoe je die knop omkrijgt, hoe je opeens positief gaat denken. Het zal zeker wel te maken hebben met de omgeving, de mensen om je heen, de liefde die je krijgt, je sociale status, je economische situatie; alles ja. Maar het belangrijkste in positief in het leven staan ben jij. Hoe ga jij om met verschillende situaties? Hoe jij in het leven staat is van essentieel belang voor acceptatie van anderen, voor jouw kijk op liefde, maar vooral voor zelfacceptatie. Nja eigenlijk dwaal ik nu enorm af en wilde ik het helemaal niet hebben over zelfacceptatie.. Positieve psychologie, that's how we do it!

Perfect romance

What is it about guys? What is it about romance, where are the times that guys used to let you walk first, open the doors for you and held your purse? I think there are just a few guys left who do such things, or am I totally wrong? Maybe if you're lucky, a guy will ask you to be his date to the engagement party from your classmate. Maybe he will open the doors for you, helps you out of the car, let you walk first. Maybe he will ask you to dance. And maybe, if you're really lucky, he maybe will even smile to you the whole evening. 

Yes it happened to me last night, it was a really great night, I really enjoyed every moment of it although I was wearing heels which killed my feet. I had a really good time, wish my classmate all the luck and love in the world for her engagement and hope I will have so many more nights like those. 

I don't know what's it going to be with the guy, what is going to happen or what he thinks about it. Now I just hope he doesn't read this. I don't know if I'm supposed to post things such as this, actually. 

I just hope for all of you that someday you will find the love of you life, have a beautiful engagement dress, have a lovely engagement party and spend the rest of your life together with him! Just remember that love conquers all ♥

A students life #1

So it has been quite a while since I posted something on my blog.. I can come up with all the excuses but nothing can make it right. Enough apologies and enough said about it. 

Although I didn't caught up at all with you, I would life to let you know that I'm pretty fine. My life has changed so much since I go to college. I have to do everything myself now, but I do like it, you know. Living on your own, with all the freedom it takes loads of responsibility, but I think that I can handle it. So the last weeks have been quite tough, but very nice!

So I started college, after the introduction week, school really did start and all the fun and partying had to stop. I must say, it was quite a big change, switching from high school to college. I'm lucky that I have really nice classmates! Somewhere in the second week, I kind of doubted about the study. I just didn't know if I made the right choice. And suddenly I started doubting about everything. That feeling is so frustrating. But, after two classes I just knew I made the right choice!

Well that was the thing about school.. Let's move on to life. Life's great, I do feel pretty good. I like college, I like my new friends, I like my roommates, I like the new gym, I do like my life right now. I have to say, I haven't been as happy as I am right now in weeks, maybe months.

Okay I just wanted to let you know that I'm still alive and that I'm great!

Enjoy your weekend!